Mesh Blog

  • Home
  • Thoughts from 242
  • The Best Things To Do This Week
  • The Kitchen Sink
  • Dating Dish
  • Home/
  • The Kitchen Sink/
  • What to Wear on a First Date–According to Your Date
May 9, 2014
What to Wear on a First Date

What to Wear on a First Date–According to Your Date

Hali/ Leave a Comment/ 8989

If we had our way, every first date we meet would show up appearing like they walked straight out of the pages of the latest issue of GQ. If only they knew that’s what we were expecting…

To clarify matters of first date dressing for everyone, we went ahead and picked five desirable looks for guys–and asked a reputable guy to do the same for us gals. Of course, it’s always important to stay true to yourself style-wise. And while we would never recommend something like dressing all-out prep when your heart’s really punk, we definitely urge all daters to consider that first impressions really do last.

Put these picks on your spring shopping list stat:

GUYS

PREP

Bringing her flowers on the initial date may seem a bit antiquated. But a casual floral tie is oh-so-sweet. Wear it with a coordinating button down for a look that melts her heart at first sight. J. Crew Cotton Tie in Ultramarine Floral, $69.50

blog1
blog1-2

TRENDY

Yes, girls judge you on your shoes. And they’re bound to give high ranks for these blue oxfords with brighter blue contrast sole. Stylish, polished, and fun. What more could a lady want? Cole Haan Lunargrand Suede Wingtip Oxfords, $110

blog2-1
blog2-2
blog2-3

HIPSTER

An offbeat collared button down shirt shows your personality, and dresses up your everyday skinny jeans. Go for one in subdued tones so she focuses more on you than your outfit. Printed Rayon Short Sleeve Button Up Shirt, $75

blog3-1
blog3-2
blog3-3

GIRLS

PREP

It’s hard to go wrong with a sundress on the first date. Tailored and bright, this flattering floral number shows that you’re put together, but also like to have some fun. J.Crew Cove Floral Surf Dress, $168.

blog4-1
blog4-2
blog4-3

TRENDY

This statement necklace jazzes up a slouchy tee or basic jersey dress, plus acts as a conversation starter for any awkward moments during the date that may arise. Multicolor Large Bead Bib Necklace, $12.50

blog5-2
blog5-1

HIPSTER

Showing up to a first date wearing a floppy hat takes major confidence–plus really flatters your facial features. This sweet neutral hued topper tells him you’ve got style and aren’t afraid to show it. Urban Outfitters Short Brim Floppy Hat, $69

blog6-1
blog6-2

Share:
Tags:
dating dating tips fashion relationship
← Previous Monday’s Mix: Summertime
Next → Monday’s Mix: Sugar, Spice, and Everything Nice

Written by Hali

Contributing Editor at Mesh Labs Inc.

View all articles by Hali

Related Articles

  • I'll get there.

    Just Don’t Give Up, Man

  • blog4

    10 Ways To Get Out Of A Lame Date: Part 1

  • blog11

    Summer Date Duffel! Everything You Need to Date this Summer

  • blog3

    Thanking Gender Fluidity

  • how it is every time I hang out with my girls

    7 Signs It’s Time For A Date With Your Girls

Leave a Comment Cancel Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Popular

  • 128248935

    We See You and Welcome You

    1725704 Views
  • blog5

    I am the Bad Girlfriend: Dating and Therapy

    988833 Views
  • me with the guys who messaged me this week

    White(ish) Lies and Dating: How Honest is Too Honest?

    752127 Views
  • blog2

    Dressing For The Woman I Want To Feel Like

    988311 Views
  • basically Dima.

    Walking A Thin, Slutty Line

    1033949 Views
  • Bjango-Purple-1440x900

    What Does Your Favorite Color Say About You?

    786556 Views
  • eye

    Eye Contact: The Most Flirtatious Form of Body Language

    790660 Views
  • blog6

    Love with a Mismatched Sex Drive

    1027358 Views
  • blog8

    What Does That Gift Mean?

    1027848 Views
  • Man in suit with microphone making funny faces

    Date Recap: José the Comedian

    1030305 Views
  • image

    What’s Your Dating Spirit Animal? Our 9 Favorite

    831670 Views
  • Photo by Clayton Hauck for Second City

    Improv Your Relationship

    1034812 Views
  • translater-interpreter

    What is Wingman in French?

    831209 Views
  • teach

    Online Dating for Love and English

    728002 Views
  • Screen Shot 2015-04-16 at 4.34.06 PM

    5 Online Daters Sound Off – Part 2

    977766 Views
  • I mean, lookit these baby blues.

    I’m Bisexual: Why aren’t I ruling the dating world!?

    986629 Views
  • tumblr_mk6cfiQWkW1rc7lofo1_500

    What Their Apartment Says About Them

    987690 Views
  • tumblr_nfglrhyQyq1sgpnrko1_1280

    Monday’s Mix: Water Came Down

    984305 Views
  • or-advice2

    Advice That’ll Get You Fired

    782816 Views
  • date3

    Online Daters Sound Off On: First Dates – Part 1

    784621 Views
  • Screen Shot 2015-02-01 at 2.07.42 PM

    Monday’s Mix: Teen Bop

    1026717 Views
  • blog1

    The Curious Joy of Horrible Dates

    1022184 Views
  • date3

    Online Daters Sound Off On: First Dates – Part 2

    681437 Views
  • fun-date-ideas-for-summer1337755774-jun-20-2012-600x400

    Ready, Set, Date

    829901 Views
  • Central Park

    10 Better NYC First Date Ideas

    830496 Views
  • kristen-wiig-as-annie-in-bridesmaids-2011

    14 Amazing Responses to “Why Are You Still Single?”

    694573 Views
  • What a week!

    Pre-Beta Week 1: Giveaways & Site Updates

    1032001 Views
  • Can you say "sexy-time?"

    Love and Roadkill

    1029423 Views
  • Capture345

    How to Keep the Fireworks Alive in Your Relationship

    828500 Views
  • red flag

    6 Hidden Dealbreakers and How to Spot Them

    835627 Views
  • doggy-bag3

    Doggy Bag Style

    973519 Views
  • tumblr_mxv2elVCOq1qhq5ibo1_1280

    Monday’s Mix: Start New

    972289 Views
  • Dating and Emojis: The How-To Guide

    Dating and Emojis: The How-To Guide

    1001915 Views
  • tumblr_nawbz75pj51seg94oo4_1280

    10 Creative DIY Dates

    980650 Views
  • Dealbreaker-08

    What’s Your Dealbreaker This World Cup?

    1019242 Views
  • Courtesy of informationtechnologyschools.org

    How to Bring the Romance into Online Dating Messages: Poetic Tricks for the Digital Age

    1729647 Views
  • mockup

    Mesh Makes us Fall in Love with Online Dating Again

    1705769 Views

@Follow Me

Follow @MeshBetter
    There is an error in twitter widget, please make sure that you have set up the Twitter API settings

Who are we?

The Mesh Blog team is a patchwork of smart and savvy 20-somethings passionate about dating, relationships and everything in between. Follow us as we laugh, love, live and dish all about it.

Tag Cloud

bronx brooklyn brooklyn dates Cheap Dates christmas date ideas date night dates dating dating messages dating profile dating tips Dealbreakers DIY dates events fashion features free dates fun fun dates funny holidays improvements interviews love manhattan manhattan dates Monday's Mix music new york new york city New York dates NYC NYC dates NYC dating online dating playlist queens relationship relationships romance things to do updates whimsy women

© 2014 Mesh Labs Inc. All rights reserved.

  • Mesh
  • Home